凯莉日记第一季

麦当娜那个party上：首先，Sebastian不是处男了，Carrie还是处女，要破处的是carrie，口口声声说这个晚上多么多么重要的是carrie，不是Sebastian。结果Sebastian很配合，很体贴，有点什么事都说没关系。而carrie呢？她不知道这个party他们杂志是来工作的吗？就为了所谓的工作把男友撂一边。为那个采访值得吗？而且在走向采访对象时Sebastian已经一张苦瓜脸了，carrie看不出来？这之前Sebastian已经一个人在喝闷酒了——典型的不开心的标志。carrie都看不出来？大概在carrie的世界里只有她自己，所有人都得无条件配合自己。但是世界不是围着她转的，最后悲剧也只能活该。

既然是凯莉日记还是从女主Carrie说起，我觉得她就是一彻头彻尾的白痴，貌似是一个乖乖女，但是明眼人都看得出来她根本做不到，她做不到对父亲坦白，做不到体贴男友，还总是没事找事，仿佛傻笑就能解决所有问题。反而是Sebastian，从他的身份背景，富二代，父母离异，被学校开除，我会以为他是一个只会无度享乐的坏小子，可是他却反常得优秀，当然不单是帅气，性格也很好，可以和Carrie的朋友们和妹妹打成一片，很重视一段感情，尊重女孩子，对母亲也体现出男子汉的责任感。 另一个我比较不能接受的就是Mouse，一副做作的样子，难道好学生都这样吗？做的一切事情都是为了成绩，甚至可以有点不择手段，我理解她有上进心，但做事也要有度，也许这就是中式教育和西式教育混合的结果。Maggie我倒是很喜欢，笑容很美，不做作，她的标签是drama queen，但是哪个女孩子不是戏剧女王呢，除非她过于自卑了，有资本的自信女孩都是drama queen。说完三姐妹，再说看起来是她们共同的死敌Donna，她会让人越来越爱吧，有一说一，好相处，至少不虚伪做作，倒是嚣张了点，像个bitch，但确实不坏，难怪Walt就和她很相处得来，相比起三姐妹谁不开心就只会抱抱，我更喜欢可以和Donna真正说说。 女主的妹妹，Dorrit，反正也作不出什么乱子来，下次偷溜的时候不如不找她，就觉得没意思了吧，但是我突然觉得这想法好可悲，因为我是独生子女，可能永远体会不了兄弟姐妹之间那种即使吵架千遍仍旧彼此担心的感觉。最后就是一直以来奇葩的存在Larissa，每个女孩儿都渴望有一个这样时尚的亲切的引导者吧，几句话就说服女主爸爸同意她在曼哈顿的一切了，总觉得她在这座城市如鱼得水太简单了点，没有烦恼，还是酋长的女儿，总之就是不可思议。

虽然剧情有点雷，不过每集日记里面的内容很经典，值得收录下来！不定时更新在我的日记：http://www.douban.com/note/316206188/【S01E02 】"Lie with me"     They say that the eyes are the window to the soul, that looking into someone's eyes is to know the truth, to know what's real. The same could be said for the city that never sleeps. It's honest and totally awesome.    Pinocchio（匹诺曹） was a puppet that wanted to be a real boy. All he had to do was be truthful, and his wish would come true. And even then, he couldn't help but lie.    Doing the right thing is hard. Maybe because lying is often easier than the truth. And sometimes it actually gets what you want. But at some point, like Pinocchio's nose, the lies just keep growing until it's hard to tell what's real and what's not. And we can either live in that world of make-believe or face the truth and everything that comes with it. —————————————————————————————————————————【S01E03】"Read before use"     Let's face it. Life is easier if you read the labels, like "Do not put it in dryer" "Expiration date: one week ago". Everyting we wear, everything we eat--they all have labels. The same is true for everyone we know, "Stoner（酒鬼）" "Class clown" "Well-meaning but ultimately clueless guidance counselor" and "The boy of my deams".    Now I knew what it said on Sebastion（人名）'s label--"Contents under pressure, handle with care". Unfortunately, I never bothered to read it. That's the tricky thing about labels.     Once in a while, they tell us everything we need to know. But most of the time, it's only a very small part of the story. Slapping a word or two on a person can make things worse. In reality, nothing is ever as simple as the label we give it. ——————————————————————————————————————————【S01E04】"Fright Night"    The scarest thing in high school: when someone breaks your heart, it's such a small place that you can't avoid them. It's ironic. The time in your life when you're least capable of managing your emotions is the same time you're locked up for eight hours a day with the people responsible for those emotions in the first place. It was like I was living in my own personal horror film--"The Rise of the Boy who Broke My Heart". And apparently it was playing everywhere.    Valentine's day is about love. Christmas is about giving. Arbor day（植树节） is about trees, I guess. I get celebrating all those things, but Halloween? Halloween is a holiday where we put on costumes and try on different versions of ourselves--the princess, the demon（恶魔）, the bird flying free.     It's fun not to be "us", and to not have to face the reality of who we really are and the things that scare us, like our vulnerabilities（脆弱）, or what we really want for ourselves, or our fear of change and what it will inevitably（必然地） bring. Being someone else for a night can be fun or scary. Either way, it's only one night, and when the masks are off and we're being ourselves again, we have nothing to hide behind, and maybe that's okey.    But my night in Manhattan（曼哈顿） had taught me one thing: No matter what you're going through, it's always better if you have people to share it with. I was lucky, I wasn't an island at all.——————————————————————————————————————————【S01E05】"Dangerous territory"    When we think about entering new unchartered（未知的） territory, it always comes with the idea that we forge ahead. And that's true to some degree. But often to forge ahead, we have to look back to understand what we're leaving behind. And it can be scary because behind us, there are often blind spots--things we want to ignore or couldn't even see, that can stop us from our journey forward, but only if you let them.     At some point, you have to let go of the past and stop looking behind and embrace what comes next. I was entering new territory, moving on, letting go of the old. My mom was right: Sometimes change is good. ——————————————————————————————————————————【S01E06】"endgame"    When we focus too much on our endgame（结局）, we can miss the fun of the journey, we can miss the detour（绕道） that would take us somewhere even more rewarding.     We like to set goals, because they give us a feeling of control. But control is an illusion, because sometimes the earth moves, and we have to deal with wherever we end up, whether it's on solid ground or not. ——————————————————————————————————————————【S01E07】"caught"We all feel caught at some point or another between choices. As the Band Devo（退化乐队） said, "Freedom of chioce is what we want. Freedom from choice is what we need." Having choice, at first, feels exciting, but after a while it can also be overwhelming, like we're trapped with no clear way out. If you're lucky, you might find someone is there to catch you when you finally escape the web. But most of the time, it's harder.Some people get caught between their secrets and wanting to do the right thing, while others are caught between their desires and their ambitions. I was faced with tough decision, for sure. But I no longer felt caught between what I wanted and what my dad wanted. I realized this was my life, and I wasn't going to have any regrets. ——————————————————————————————————————————【S01E08】"hush hush" 保密We all have secrets. when we're little, they start off innocent--A hiding place, a stash（藏匿处） of candy, a hush-hush crush. But as we get older, our secrets get bigger and better.Often what we want, what we desire is something we keep deep inside of us. Something so dear and so special, it feels too scary to let it out into the open. It's our own little secret, and therefore, safe from harm. But maybe we have to let those secrets out in order to actually really live. The fallout from those secrets being revealed is often hard, or sometimes surprising and maybe even inevitable.I wasn't given a choice, but I think I was relieved that all my secrets were out. And even though I was scared, I was also relieved not to have to hide my feelings anymore. It wasn't much, but it's a start.